There are literally thousands of questions couples can discuss to learn about each other. The problem that some people have is that they simply cannot decide what the best way is for them to go about learning, or even how to ask them. That is where these tips come in, so you can learn to ask them and actually be able to know what they think on a variety of subjects.
Ask them what they are interested in. It is important to be able to find out what your partner enjoys doing. If they have a particular interest, then chances are they might be more than happy to tell you. Some men love to golf, while other women like to make crafts.
Ask them about their favorite pastime. Many men enjoy fishing, while others enjoy taking long walks around the park or going shopping for something with them.
In an open and honest (non-threatening way) ask them how past relationships have been. Many men love to talk about their past relationships, which is something many women enjoy knowing about as well. What did they like or did not like about past relationships?
Ask them how they would feel if they could do anything again.
This is a question that can have a dramatic impact on any relationship. When you ask your partner how they would feel if they could do something else, it shows that you respect their views and beliefs. It also shows that you want to hear what they think, and they might even be interested in hearing what you think.
Ask them what they would say.
If you ask your partner how they would describe their feelings, it may surprise you and get them talking about what they really think. It can also open up communication and understanding in a relationship that has become stilted and routine.
Ask them to tell you about their dreams.
Sometimes when we ask about our partners’ dreams, we may find out what they were doing when they were younger. This can give us some insight into how they truly felt, and how they managed to overcome problems.
When you learn to ask your partner to tell you about their feelings, you will be able to communicate with them better, and find out what they really feel. This is much easier than if you just try to figure it out by yourself.
Ask them about their hobbies.
If you have a passion for something, but you don’t know what you should do with it, asking your partner to tell you what their hobby is can be a good way to start.
Ask them about their interests.
One of the most important questions to ask your partner is what they enjoy doing and why.
Ask them if they have a favorite movie or television show.
This one might surprise them.
Ask them if they have a favorite book.
The same principle applies for a book as a movie – you can start with a question about your partner’s favorite book and see what they like.
Ask them to describe their relationship with you.
You can get some great insights here too. If you can get your partner talking about their feelings, and then they talk about your feelings, you can better understand what it is that makes them tick.
Ask them to show you how they feel.
One of the best ways to help understand how your partner feels is to talk to them about how they feel and how they are feeling, and to highlight behaviors which contribute to these feelings.
Ask them on a scale of 0-10 how they feel that they take responsibility for their actions.
Even though this may sound a little awkward at first, it is a great way to get your partner to understand what it is that makes them tick, so that they will be more willing to take responsibility for their own actions and thoughts.
Ask your partner to let you in on a secret.
A secret is always a great way to get someone to share something that they think you don’t want to know. – If you are willing to listen to what they have to say, you will get some great insights into what really makes them tick, and what might cause them to act the way they do.